I posted my reply here because other users may have read your post and might have wondered the same thing. Therefore, I posted my reply here to allow them to read my explanation. I PM'd you so that you could receive my message in case you did not revisit the board.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Revise Your Policy On Sex Advice!
- Thread starter MVPlaya
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SoSuave.com
Administrator
Thanks for the suggestions. You're quite an idea man there, MVPlaya.
We DO take all suggestions seriously around here, despite what some may think. But we won't be changing the policy at this time. There are reasons that I don't really want to go into.
By the way, the reason most mods do not immediately respond to suggestions here is because most have been made dozens of times before. We've all discussed them and decided against them for one reason or another.
But policies change, so you never know.
We DO take all suggestions seriously around here, despite what some may think. But we won't be changing the policy at this time. There are reasons that I don't really want to go into.
By the way, the reason most mods do not immediately respond to suggestions here is because most have been made dozens of times before. We've all discussed them and decided against them for one reason or another.
But policies change, so you never know.
Ok. Can I lie about it? I DID GO OUT AND HAD AN ONE NIGHT STAND! It was a great experience. She was an 8-9. She had a beautiful body and handsized breasts. Her pussy was very wet when I fingered her.After that we had great sex. We lasted 30 minutes. I also wanted to eat her out after she gave me a blowjob in the morning but I was still too tired.
Man, if you are not sh!tting here that's maybe the shortest go help yourself talk I've had to anyone.
Anyways great for you brother!
Keep up the good work.
I hope you used some protection as well...
One last thing.
Going around the censor system may not be wise when you post right below Allen!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I had been under the impression that this was a site about meeting, dating and attracting women. I had thought that "how to have sex" type information was beyond the scope of what the site was all about.
From the replies here about segregating this type of information, my gut tells me that people want to use the sex information more so than the meeting/attracting skills. Personally I think it will make the board feel more like the "10 ways to get a woman to sleep with you on the first date" type sites. Plus I think a lot of the information that would be posted would be by people looking to self glorify themselves.
It should also be considered how the site is perceived by the hosting company and the rest of the web if the site had specific sections about sex. Could it be perceived as a adult porn site? Could it be sued because the sex information would be available to anyone no matter their age? I don't know but I'd be damn pissed if that would happen.
I think that there are enough "how to" sex sites on the web and it wouldn't be necessary for that type of information on this site. I think Sosuave has gone out of his way to allow this type of information on the site so the least we could do is accept where ever he decides to put it.
From the replies here about segregating this type of information, my gut tells me that people want to use the sex information more so than the meeting/attracting skills. Personally I think it will make the board feel more like the "10 ways to get a woman to sleep with you on the first date" type sites. Plus I think a lot of the information that would be posted would be by people looking to self glorify themselves.
It should also be considered how the site is perceived by the hosting company and the rest of the web if the site had specific sections about sex. Could it be perceived as a adult porn site? Could it be sued because the sex information would be available to anyone no matter their age? I don't know but I'd be damn pissed if that would happen.
I think that there are enough "how to" sex sites on the web and it wouldn't be necessary for that type of information on this site. I think Sosuave has gone out of his way to allow this type of information on the site so the least we could do is accept where ever he decides to put it.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
damn thats makes a hell of a lot of sense
also u dont need a forum for sex jus go read the kama sutra
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Having a seperate section would be the best
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Superman X
Banned
I find it ironic that this site teaches men to be open and not ashamed of their sexuality, but a thread about sex is dumped in the crapbucket of Anything Else.
Allen, you've done a great thing with the site here, but I think this policy is a mistake.
-Dan
Allen, you've done a great thing with the site here, but I think this policy is a mistake.
-Dan