"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Review: Mystery Method Master Series-CD Interview Vol. 3

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You guys just don't "get" how it works. A neg isn't an insult, it's a back-handed, compliment delivered playfully. You don't throw it until you have established some attraction by merely being interesting. You throw the neg to disqualify your sexual interest in the target. She is used to being hit on by everyone, but all of a sudden, someone different comes along-YOU. You don't want her. She wants to know why you are different. She is interested in you. You are now the "Hot Chick" in the interaction. You make it seem like you walk up, tell the chick she's fat and think that's what a neg is. Always remember-People want what they can't have, even if you have to give the impression that they can't have it. That's why it's called disqualification theory. And deep down, everybody is insecure in some way, they only will show it if they like you first. Negs work-Plain and Simple.
 

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waxlrose said:
So don't try to talk people out of looking at THEIR options. Reading books may help some of the guys here and more power to them. If it's not something you require, don't read it. It may help other people start from scratch.
What's your finder fee?
 

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waxlrose said:
You guys just don't "get" how it works. A neg isn't an insult, it's a back-handed, compliment delivered playfully. You don't throw it until you have established some attraction by merely being interesting. You throw the neg to disqualify your sexual interest in the target. She is used to being hit on by everyone, but all of a sudden, someone different comes along-YOU. You don't want her. She wants to know why you are different. She is interested in you. You are now the "Hot Chick" in the interaction. You make it seem like you walk up, tell the chick she's fat and think that's what a neg is. Always remember-People want what they can't have, even if you have to give the impression that they can't have it. That's why it's called disqualification theory. And deep down, everybody is insecure in some way, they only will show it if they like you first. Negs work-Plain and Simple.
Oh, I get how negs work, and who they work on.

Who they won't work on is HSE chicks who are not insecure, who don't get all self-conscious and insecure over a comment made by someone they just met.

And, what's the purpose of not showing sexual interest?

Women know why we are talking to them and it's not because we are dying to know who lies more, men or women, or if they think David Bowie is hot.

It's because we want to have sex with them, and they know it, and by using some lame opinion opener, that's the epitome of DLV
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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someone ban Waxl

check his posts.. hes a major spammer here.
 

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Even though calling it negs is geeky. If it does not work your just too ugly for her to care.

It's not the fact she is so amazingly secure with herself that she can not socialize and actually reply when somebody teases her. If she rejects you after you teased her it's because your just not the type she's looking for and does not care what you think of her. End of story.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Even though calling it negs is geeky. If it does not work your just too ugly for her to care.

It's not the fact she is so amazingly secure with herself that she can not socialize and actually reply when somebody teases her. If she rejects you after you teased her it's because your just not the type she's looking for and does not care what you think of her. End of story.

You're missing the point. Entirely.
 

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The guy appears to be a shill for Mystery, as he is copying and pasting the same review on various seduction sites.

Rumor even has it that Mystery employs HB shills out in the field during workshops/bootcamps so the guys who spent $2,000+ feel that they are getting results.

Someday, I'd like to see someone write a real book on the seduction community, one that exposes all the sleazy marketing, the shills that hype these products, and the shills that are employed by gurus to be receptive to workshop attendee's out in the field.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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By "negging" you are demonstrating lower value, as well as trying to qualify yourself to her.

The point of negging is to bring her down a notch or two. That automatically sub-communicates that she is above you, and that you have to try bring her down to "your level"

The other point of negging is to show that you are not intimidated by her beauty, and that you feel comfortable around HB9's and 10's to the point where you can behave that way around them, but it just sub-communicates that you are also trying to qualify yourself to her at the same time.

"I negged you, because I'm not intimidated by you" so to speak.

It's like when you're about to get into a fight, and your opponent says "I'm not afraid of you" or "You don't want to fight me"

By saying that, it shows that he is indeed afraid of you, but he's trying to convince you he's not.

There are much better ways to DHV
 

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I can review this product up in a few words: "I wish I got it off the internet instead"
Mystery Method dvd's: $Too much money.

Other slimeball gurus' books/dvd's: $Too fvcking much money.

Quote above: PRICELESS

For everything else you losers buy hoping it'll instantly turn you from Mr. frog into Mr. Perfect , There's MasterCard.
 

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Just so you guys know, waxlrose and mystery are the same person :D Look at his post history.
 

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Krassus said:
Just so you guys know, waxlrose and mystery are the same person :D Look at his post history.
Not to sure about that, as his writing style differs from that of Mystery's.

I think the MM has some value, but stuff like Negging, Faking Disinterest, Opinion Openers and Peacocking are counter-productive.
 

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I'm not going to get involved in a flame war. I share my reviews with different sites, true. I do it to keep people informed. Sometimes I get requests from people to use my reviews, I let them use them. Maybe I'm a good writer, I don't know. I like to make friends and I love this community-I'm just here to help. I'm not here to preach the entire gospel of one man, I just think he is one of the first that's on to something. Btw, I didn't know you could search me on google, so thanks, it makes me feel like I'm famous! Peace to all who "get" it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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