"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Review: Mystery Method Master Series-CD Interview Vol. 3

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You guys just don't "get" how it works. A neg isn't an insult, it's a back-handed, compliment delivered playfully. You don't throw it until you have established some attraction by merely being interesting. You throw the neg to disqualify your sexual interest in the target. She is used to being hit on by everyone, but all of a sudden, someone different comes along-YOU. You don't want her. She wants to know why you are different. She is interested in you. You are now the "Hot Chick" in the interaction. You make it seem like you walk up, tell the chick she's fat and think that's what a neg is. Always remember-People want what they can't have, even if you have to give the impression that they can't have it. That's why it's called disqualification theory. And deep down, everybody is insecure in some way, they only will show it if they like you first. Negs work-Plain and Simple.
 

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waxlrose said:
So don't try to talk people out of looking at THEIR options. Reading books may help some of the guys here and more power to them. If it's not something you require, don't read it. It may help other people start from scratch.
What's your finder fee?
 

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waxlrose said:
You guys just don't "get" how it works. A neg isn't an insult, it's a back-handed, compliment delivered playfully. You don't throw it until you have established some attraction by merely being interesting. You throw the neg to disqualify your sexual interest in the target. She is used to being hit on by everyone, but all of a sudden, someone different comes along-YOU. You don't want her. She wants to know why you are different. She is interested in you. You are now the "Hot Chick" in the interaction. You make it seem like you walk up, tell the chick she's fat and think that's what a neg is. Always remember-People want what they can't have, even if you have to give the impression that they can't have it. That's why it's called disqualification theory. And deep down, everybody is insecure in some way, they only will show it if they like you first. Negs work-Plain and Simple.
Oh, I get how negs work, and who they work on.

Who they won't work on is HSE chicks who are not insecure, who don't get all self-conscious and insecure over a comment made by someone they just met.

And, what's the purpose of not showing sexual interest?

Women know why we are talking to them and it's not because we are dying to know who lies more, men or women, or if they think David Bowie is hot.

It's because we want to have sex with them, and they know it, and by using some lame opinion opener, that's the epitome of DLV
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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someone ban Waxl

check his posts.. hes a major spammer here.
 

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Even though calling it negs is geeky. If it does not work your just too ugly for her to care.

It's not the fact she is so amazingly secure with herself that she can not socialize and actually reply when somebody teases her. If she rejects you after you teased her it's because your just not the type she's looking for and does not care what you think of her. End of story.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Even though calling it negs is geeky. If it does not work your just too ugly for her to care.

It's not the fact she is so amazingly secure with herself that she can not socialize and actually reply when somebody teases her. If she rejects you after you teased her it's because your just not the type she's looking for and does not care what you think of her. End of story.

You're missing the point. Entirely.
 

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The guy appears to be a shill for Mystery, as he is copying and pasting the same review on various seduction sites.

Rumor even has it that Mystery employs HB shills out in the field during workshops/bootcamps so the guys who spent $2,000+ feel that they are getting results.

Someday, I'd like to see someone write a real book on the seduction community, one that exposes all the sleazy marketing, the shills that hype these products, and the shills that are employed by gurus to be receptive to workshop attendee's out in the field.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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By "negging" you are demonstrating lower value, as well as trying to qualify yourself to her.

The point of negging is to bring her down a notch or two. That automatically sub-communicates that she is above you, and that you have to try bring her down to "your level"

The other point of negging is to show that you are not intimidated by her beauty, and that you feel comfortable around HB9's and 10's to the point where you can behave that way around them, but it just sub-communicates that you are also trying to qualify yourself to her at the same time.

"I negged you, because I'm not intimidated by you" so to speak.

It's like when you're about to get into a fight, and your opponent says "I'm not afraid of you" or "You don't want to fight me"

By saying that, it shows that he is indeed afraid of you, but he's trying to convince you he's not.

There are much better ways to DHV
 

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I can review this product up in a few words: "I wish I got it off the internet instead"
Mystery Method dvd's: $Too much money.

Other slimeball gurus' books/dvd's: $Too fvcking much money.

Quote above: PRICELESS

For everything else you losers buy hoping it'll instantly turn you from Mr. frog into Mr. Perfect , There's MasterCard.
 

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Just so you guys know, waxlrose and mystery are the same person :D Look at his post history.
 

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Krassus said:
Just so you guys know, waxlrose and mystery are the same person :D Look at his post history.
Not to sure about that, as his writing style differs from that of Mystery's.

I think the MM has some value, but stuff like Negging, Faking Disinterest, Opinion Openers and Peacocking are counter-productive.
 

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I'm not going to get involved in a flame war. I share my reviews with different sites, true. I do it to keep people informed. Sometimes I get requests from people to use my reviews, I let them use them. Maybe I'm a good writer, I don't know. I like to make friends and I love this community-I'm just here to help. I'm not here to preach the entire gospel of one man, I just think he is one of the first that's on to something. Btw, I didn't know you could search me on google, so thanks, it makes me feel like I'm famous! Peace to all who "get" it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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