Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Restlessness

Huffman

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Ever since I started working out, stopped wanking, etc etc, my life has vastly improved and so has my success with women.

I've never been more focused, never been more awake.
But as I feel the power surging through my veins, I am growing restless.

I feel like I should be climbing some mountains or sarging (even) more girls. Now that is not bad in itself, BUT I can't get myself to do any "normal" activity anymore.
Every silent minute, I find myself fidgeting. I can't tend to my hobbies anymore. Hell, I cannot even spend a single evening watching a film, thinking I'm missing some great adventure at this very moment.

Long story short:
While my desire for action is admirable, I am unable to sate the hunger, no matter how much sports/sarging/whatever I do. And that is f*cking unsatisfying.

Anyone of you come across that?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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believe it or not you're at a point that alot of members are trying to achieve
 

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I have experienced the same, although I did not give up masturbation. Try meditation, it helped me gain more peace and self-awareness. I will post a link to an ebook I recommend printing out and reading:
http://www.urbandharma.org/udharma4/mpe.html
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Huffman

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snowdog said:
Are you successful? I mean do your improvements get you laid?
Yes, although I'm still far from being "a real DJ". I'm just getting started! ;)

Thanks for your link hexman. I'll definitely look into it.
 
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