"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Restlessness

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Ever since I started working out, stopped wanking, etc etc, my life has vastly improved and so has my success with women.

I've never been more focused, never been more awake.
But as I feel the power surging through my veins, I am growing restless.

I feel like I should be climbing some mountains or sarging (even) more girls. Now that is not bad in itself, BUT I can't get myself to do any "normal" activity anymore.
Every silent minute, I find myself fidgeting. I can't tend to my hobbies anymore. Hell, I cannot even spend a single evening watching a film, thinking I'm missing some great adventure at this very moment.

Long story short:
While my desire for action is admirable, I am unable to sate the hunger, no matter how much sports/sarging/whatever I do. And that is f*cking unsatisfying.

Anyone of you come across that?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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believe it or not you're at a point that alot of members are trying to achieve
 
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I have experienced the same, although I did not give up masturbation. Try meditation, it helped me gain more peace and self-awareness. I will post a link to an ebook I recommend printing out and reading:
http://www.urbandharma.org/udharma4/mpe.html
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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snowdog said:
Are you successful? I mean do your improvements get you laid?
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Yes, although I'm still far from being "a real DJ". I'm just getting started! ;)

Thanks for your link hexman. I'll definitely look into it.
 
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