"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Restlessness

Huffman

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Ever since I started working out, stopped wanking, etc etc, my life has vastly improved and so has my success with women.

I've never been more focused, never been more awake.
But as I feel the power surging through my veins, I am growing restless.

I feel like I should be climbing some mountains or sarging (even) more girls. Now that is not bad in itself, BUT I can't get myself to do any "normal" activity anymore.
Every silent minute, I find myself fidgeting. I can't tend to my hobbies anymore. Hell, I cannot even spend a single evening watching a film, thinking I'm missing some great adventure at this very moment.

Long story short:
While my desire for action is admirable, I am unable to sate the hunger, no matter how much sports/sarging/whatever I do. And that is f*cking unsatisfying.

Anyone of you come across that?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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believe it or not you're at a point that alot of members are trying to achieve
 

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I have experienced the same, although I did not give up masturbation. Try meditation, it helped me gain more peace and self-awareness. I will post a link to an ebook I recommend printing out and reading:
http://www.urbandharma.org/udharma4/mpe.html
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Huffman

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snowdog said:
Are you successful? I mean do your improvements get you laid?
Yes, although I'm still far from being "a real DJ". I'm just getting started! ;)

Thanks for your link hexman. I'll definitely look into it.
 
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