"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Restlessness

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Ever since I started working out, stopped wanking, etc etc, my life has vastly improved and so has my success with women.

I've never been more focused, never been more awake.
But as I feel the power surging through my veins, I am growing restless.

I feel like I should be climbing some mountains or sarging (even) more girls. Now that is not bad in itself, BUT I can't get myself to do any "normal" activity anymore.
Every silent minute, I find myself fidgeting. I can't tend to my hobbies anymore. Hell, I cannot even spend a single evening watching a film, thinking I'm missing some great adventure at this very moment.

Long story short:
While my desire for action is admirable, I am unable to sate the hunger, no matter how much sports/sarging/whatever I do. And that is f*cking unsatisfying.

Anyone of you come across that?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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believe it or not you're at a point that alot of members are trying to achieve
 
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I have experienced the same, although I did not give up masturbation. Try meditation, it helped me gain more peace and self-awareness. I will post a link to an ebook I recommend printing out and reading:
http://www.urbandharma.org/udharma4/mpe.html
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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snowdog said:
Are you successful? I mean do your improvements get you laid?
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Yes, although I'm still far from being "a real DJ". I'm just getting started! ;)

Thanks for your link hexman. I'll definitely look into it.
 
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