Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Restlessness

Huffman

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Ever since I started working out, stopped wanking, etc etc, my life has vastly improved and so has my success with women.

I've never been more focused, never been more awake.
But as I feel the power surging through my veins, I am growing restless.

I feel like I should be climbing some mountains or sarging (even) more girls. Now that is not bad in itself, BUT I can't get myself to do any "normal" activity anymore.
Every silent minute, I find myself fidgeting. I can't tend to my hobbies anymore. Hell, I cannot even spend a single evening watching a film, thinking I'm missing some great adventure at this very moment.

Long story short:
While my desire for action is admirable, I am unable to sate the hunger, no matter how much sports/sarging/whatever I do. And that is f*cking unsatisfying.

Anyone of you come across that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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believe it or not you're at a point that alot of members are trying to achieve
 
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I have experienced the same, although I did not give up masturbation. Try meditation, it helped me gain more peace and self-awareness. I will post a link to an ebook I recommend printing out and reading:
http://www.urbandharma.org/udharma4/mpe.html
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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snowdog said:
Are you successful? I mean do your improvements get you laid?
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Yes, although I'm still far from being "a real DJ". I'm just getting started! ;)

Thanks for your link hexman. I'll definitely look into it.
 
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