"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rest in peace Val!!

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BillyPilgrim

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Good actor, Val Kilmer was. Salton Sea is an underrated classic.

Pity the Doors movie obfuscated the absurdity of Jim Morrison's father helping start the Vietnam War by directing the Gulf of Tonkin incident, while Jim was helping lead the counterculture revolution by being rock music's biggest bad boy. Both anti-heroes but extreme polar opposites; the chances of this organically occurring are about 1/1,000,000,000. But film director Oliver Stone likes being alive, so...
 

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"I'll be your huckleberry," from Tombstone is my favorite of all his lines. I saw that movie as a teenager and even then was suspicious of their depiction of the shootout at the ok corral being about enforcing a local gun control ordinance
..in the wild west. It made me go to the library, because this was before the internet and we only had stone tablets. Turns out the real reason for the conflict was "they was talking sh1t."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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All the more tragic when one recognizes
dude definitely had more than enough talent to be among those who enjoyed Liam Neeson-esque later career revival
 

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"I'll be your huckleberry," from Tombstone is my favorite of all his lines.
His depiction of Doc Holliday is one of the high points in cinema for sure.

On a less serious note, I thought he made a decent Batman. The movie he was in stunk (Batman Forever), but I didn't think he made a bad Batman. That was the third movie in that series, but I always thought that title should have been for the fourth.
 

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On a less serious note, I thought he made a decent Batman. The movie he was in stunk (Batman Forever), but I didn't think he made a bad Batman
In the documentary "Val", he discusses the original script having been a far more somber exploration of Bruce Wayne's trauma , and his doubts over the life path he'd chosen + How the movie ultimately became one gigantic ad for merch*, even though traces of what could've been can still be found in the final product


*We can give Joel Schumacher and 90s Warner Brothers credit, in some demented sense: They anticipated what mainstream Hollywood would degenerate into a few decades later, once we were deep into The 10s
 

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Good actor, Val Kilmer was. Salton Sea is an underrated classic.

Pity the Doors movie obfuscated the absurdity of Jim Morrison's father helping start the Vietnam War by directing the Gulf of Tonkin incident, while Jim was helping lead the counterculture revolution by being rock music's biggest bad boy. Both anti-heroes but extreme polar opposites; the chances of this organically occurring are about 1/1,000,000,000. But film director Oliver Stone likes being alive, so...
It was also a movie about the doors, not just Jim. I guess a mention or something would have been nice - Oliver stone of all people, too. Guys got no issue putting his neck out there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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