"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jiza101

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This ***** in my class goes to me "ure ugly" in like a joking kind of way and i just stood there like ummm... I shoulda said look in the mirror ***** :p
but i didnt think, how do you guys reply to **** like that, i dont even think im ugly, i just think she was playing with me :eek:
But im not a girl so i dont know :/ How can i find out lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Post your picture in hotornot.com and you are going to destroy your doubts of your uglyness.

A$$hole : U r Ugly!
Me : At least I ain't a loser, biitch.
 

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"At least I get the girls"

Do NOT post your pic on hotornot.com, that is THE stupidest site I have ever seen in my life... People who actually post their pics there are... I'll spare you the words, but you get the idea.

~ivan
 

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lol, she also goes to me i dont have friends. I actually have heaps, i just duno how to respond to this *****.. she says such harsh words but in a jokingly kind of fashion.. Need a wicked comeback :0
 

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Put your right hand on her left shoulder and say: "Look [pause for a few seconds pretending you forgot her name] 'Sarah'. This is a free country and you are obviously entitled to your opinion. But it's too bad that I just don't give a **** about it."

I know, too big lol :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HHloser2

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Originally posted by Selon
Put your right hand on her left shoulder and say: "Look [pause for a few seconds pretending you forgot her name] 'Sarah'. This is a free country and you are obviously entitled to your opinion. But it's too bad that I just don't give a **** about it."

I know, too big lol :p
I think thats the best we;ve got so far, I like it.;)
 

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whatever you do don't try to qualify yourself.

that is worse that saying nothing at all

if she says "you're ugly", respond something like "i know you really love me so don't pretend you aren't interested"
 

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post your pic over at www.wouldyouhitthis.com and ask for opinions in the forum

it separates the ugly from the good looking. ugly = 10% and below. average is about 30%.
 

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Girl : you're ugly
You: well go away and stop trying to hit on me then.
 

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Why is this getting so many replies? Why should I... or the viewers... or the original poster care about this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I had a girl say the exact same thing to me when I first met her and I'm a decent looking guy. She's a shorter cutie and I replied to her by saying "Wow, aren't we an angry little midget"....She ended up asking me out.
 

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Originally posted by JMBM53
I had a girl say the exact same thing to me when I first met her and I'm a decent looking guy. She's a shorter cutie and I replied to her by saying "Wow, aren't we an angry little midget"....She ended up asking me out.
Bwahaha

I kinda like to do the 'ole

Girl: You're ugly!
Me: *fake sarcastic gasp* *pause* "O....kay..."
 

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"I love you too, baby" :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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say...

"eh...i know...it happens, we all cant look as good as you" in a sarcastic tone to make her feel like an idiot
 

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Look her right in the eyes, pause for a dramatic moment, and say "Uh huh, really. You opinion is very important to me" and walk away.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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