"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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aight so this girl threw water at me (just a splash) cause i tried to steal her food. i think she likes me a little, but she jsut sent me this e-mail:

heyy CA, i just wanted to say i'm sorry for throwing water on you, really i am :)
if you're thinking about getting revenge on me, just remember who introduced you to THE best musician ever--regina spektor!

any ideas for a response to this?
ty guys :rock:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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u know wut? i'm kinda pissed off about this.
i'll just say "w/e, *****, i understand that you were pms-ing. don't let it happen again"
 

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lol, you don't have to respond if you don't want to, but I think you should just be playful with it and say something along the lines of, "Oh, I'll get my revenge bwahahahaha. Just wait until I see you tomorrow!" Keeps you in her interest and wondering what will happen to her tomorrow.
 

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aight u guys dont' need to respond anymore.... i e-mailed her back and she said that she'll give me a cupcake on thurs if i don't do anything back to her.

is that valentines day?
 

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Crazy Asian said:
aight u guys dont' need to respond anymore.... i e-mailed her back and she said that she'll give me a cupcake on thurs if i don't do anything back to her.

is that valentines day?
Haha! Indeed it is. :crackup:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hmmmm she's a tough cookie to crack.

sometimes i can't tell if the way she's acting is a sign of interest or disinterest.

w/e. back to the important stuff: what would be a good prank to pull on her?
 
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