"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Crazy Asian

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aight so this girl threw water at me (just a splash) cause i tried to steal her food. i think she likes me a little, but she jsut sent me this e-mail:

heyy CA, i just wanted to say i'm sorry for throwing water on you, really i am :)
if you're thinking about getting revenge on me, just remember who introduced you to THE best musician ever--regina spektor!

any ideas for a response to this?
ty guys :rock:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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u know wut? i'm kinda pissed off about this.
i'll just say "w/e, *****, i understand that you were pms-ing. don't let it happen again"
 

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lol, you don't have to respond if you don't want to, but I think you should just be playful with it and say something along the lines of, "Oh, I'll get my revenge bwahahahaha. Just wait until I see you tomorrow!" Keeps you in her interest and wondering what will happen to her tomorrow.
 

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aight u guys dont' need to respond anymore.... i e-mailed her back and she said that she'll give me a cupcake on thurs if i don't do anything back to her.

is that valentines day?
 

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Crazy Asian said:
aight u guys dont' need to respond anymore.... i e-mailed her back and she said that she'll give me a cupcake on thurs if i don't do anything back to her.

is that valentines day?
Haha! Indeed it is. :crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hmmmm she's a tough cookie to crack.

sometimes i can't tell if the way she's acting is a sign of interest or disinterest.

w/e. back to the important stuff: what would be a good prank to pull on her?
 
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