Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DavenJuan

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originally posted by challenged
How do you handle that sh1t? and with a 10... how do you handle the compliments vs. teasing... i don't want to be like the 100 drooling idiots she gets sucking up to her all the time.
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couple things..first, her being a hb10 or not should carry no bearing on HOW you respond to this. your response should be the same across the board with any wiomen that says something like that to you.

HOWEVER..the biggest issue with this is that you are asking what to say. Any women that have ever said this to me i never take seriously. It doesnt really matter WHAT you say in response to this.

HB 1-10: I dont think you can handle me
you: well, i like green eggs and ham, ill make some tomorow morning when we get up

as long as you dont take her seriously or dont TRY to PROOF your value to her, then it doesnt matter what you say
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HB: "i don't think you can handle me... frankly"
Raul: "I dont think anyone can handle you baby" ;)
HB: "haha, your funny"
Raul: "The question is can you handle this d*ck in a box?"
HB: "... mmm"

/end convo
 
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Her:

' I dont think you can handle me '

Me:

Piss myself laughing at her and go.

'Yeepp'!

'I see your a comedian too, thats sooooo cute', pinches her cheek!

'Do you have a twin sister'?

her:

'why'?

'just trying to figure out how some one so small, with tiny feet can possibly think they can keep up with me! :D

(wait of her to qualify herself).

And when she answers.

' and with big ear lobes too '!
 
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"you can't handle me."


"i'm pretty sure my hands would fit comfortably around your neck."
or
"sure i can. i always use an open palm so it won't leave a mark."
or
"..." leading to her reinitiating the conversation. Then you say "Crawling back already, huh? see how easy that was?"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonJuanNJ81

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challenged said:
Ok guys, i'm new here and i can be pretty hurtin in the game dept i admit... hoping you can help me out!

So i've been chatting with this 10 a few times and everything has been going well... i've complimented her once, but have been teasing her since... have been getting a good response and we're planning to meet up. Towards the end of our last conversation she was teasing me and i didn't have any quick comebacks, then she gives me the old

"i don't think you can handle me... frankly"

How do you handle that sh1t? and with a 10... how do you handle the compliments vs. teasing... i don't want to be like the 100 drooling idiots she gets sucking up to her all the time.
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I would just say "yeah...your probably right...", and walk away with my head down, crying. Now THAT'S, Don Juan!
 
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then she gives me the old

"i don't think you can handle me... frankly"


That's funny. I say the same thing to the girls I meet.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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DonRaul said:
HB: "i don't think you can handle me... frankly"
Raul: "I dont think anyone can handle you baby" ;)..
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I like that one. :up:
 
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challenged said:
Ok guys, i'm new here and i can be pretty hurtin in the game dept i admit... hoping you can help me out!

So i've been chatting with this 10 a few times and everything has been going well... i've complimented her once, but have been teasing her since... have been getting a good response and we're planning to meet up. Towards the end of our last conversation she was teasing me and i didn't have any quick comebacks, then she gives me the old

"i don't think you can handle me... frankly"

How do you handle that sh1t? and with a 10... how do you handle the compliments vs. teasing... i don't want to be like the 100 drooling idiots she gets sucking up to her all the time.
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Welcome to being sh!t tested dude :rockon:

whatever you do... remember the most important thing is to stay non-reactive. She is sh!t testing to see if you will show a reaction. Show weakness. Coming back at her with a "smart, witty" remark is risky cause she will think you pulled it out to try and save face... reacting... it would be ok though if she could tell you were totally unfazed by her test.

I would just stay passive... when she said that, maybe I would put alittle bored expression on my face, "yeah, ok" and then boom, I would lead the convo into an entirely different topic or something. Taking charge. Not caring about her crap or being sucked in her world. she will see you are strong if you aren't reactive.
 
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yes, yes, yes and yes... thanks for all the advice... i just have to remember to stay in the right frameset.

thanks!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WesCottII

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Who are you trying to convince there? Me......or you?
 
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me! lol

i guess i didn't f*ck up too bad... things went pretty good today... pulled some C & F and it went over well.
 
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