"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DavenJuan

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originally posted by challenged
How do you handle that sh1t? and with a 10... how do you handle the compliments vs. teasing... i don't want to be like the 100 drooling idiots she gets sucking up to her all the time.
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couple things..first, her being a hb10 or not should carry no bearing on HOW you respond to this. your response should be the same across the board with any wiomen that says something like that to you.

HOWEVER..the biggest issue with this is that you are asking what to say. Any women that have ever said this to me i never take seriously. It doesnt really matter WHAT you say in response to this.

HB 1-10: I dont think you can handle me
you: well, i like green eggs and ham, ill make some tomorow morning when we get up

as long as you dont take her seriously or dont TRY to PROOF your value to her, then it doesnt matter what you say
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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HB: "i don't think you can handle me... frankly"
Raul: "I dont think anyone can handle you baby" ;)
HB: "haha, your funny"
Raul: "The question is can you handle this d*ck in a box?"
HB: "... mmm"

/end convo
 
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Her:

' I dont think you can handle me '

Me:

Piss myself laughing at her and go.

'Yeepp'!

'I see your a comedian too, thats sooooo cute', pinches her cheek!

'Do you have a twin sister'?

her:

'why'?

'just trying to figure out how some one so small, with tiny feet can possibly think they can keep up with me! :D

(wait of her to qualify herself).

And when she answers.

' and with big ear lobes too '!
 
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"you can't handle me."


"i'm pretty sure my hands would fit comfortably around your neck."
or
"sure i can. i always use an open palm so it won't leave a mark."
or
"..." leading to her reinitiating the conversation. Then you say "Crawling back already, huh? see how easy that was?"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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challenged said:
Ok guys, i'm new here and i can be pretty hurtin in the game dept i admit... hoping you can help me out!

So i've been chatting with this 10 a few times and everything has been going well... i've complimented her once, but have been teasing her since... have been getting a good response and we're planning to meet up. Towards the end of our last conversation she was teasing me and i didn't have any quick comebacks, then she gives me the old

"i don't think you can handle me... frankly"

How do you handle that sh1t? and with a 10... how do you handle the compliments vs. teasing... i don't want to be like the 100 drooling idiots she gets sucking up to her all the time.
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I would just say "yeah...your probably right...", and walk away with my head down, crying. Now THAT'S, Don Juan!
 
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then she gives me the old

"i don't think you can handle me... frankly"


That's funny. I say the same thing to the girls I meet.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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DonRaul said:
HB: "i don't think you can handle me... frankly"
Raul: "I dont think anyone can handle you baby" ;)..
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I like that one. :up:
 
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challenged said:
Ok guys, i'm new here and i can be pretty hurtin in the game dept i admit... hoping you can help me out!

So i've been chatting with this 10 a few times and everything has been going well... i've complimented her once, but have been teasing her since... have been getting a good response and we're planning to meet up. Towards the end of our last conversation she was teasing me and i didn't have any quick comebacks, then she gives me the old

"i don't think you can handle me... frankly"

How do you handle that sh1t? and with a 10... how do you handle the compliments vs. teasing... i don't want to be like the 100 drooling idiots she gets sucking up to her all the time.
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Welcome to being sh!t tested dude :rockon:

whatever you do... remember the most important thing is to stay non-reactive. She is sh!t testing to see if you will show a reaction. Show weakness. Coming back at her with a "smart, witty" remark is risky cause she will think you pulled it out to try and save face... reacting... it would be ok though if she could tell you were totally unfazed by her test.

I would just stay passive... when she said that, maybe I would put alittle bored expression on my face, "yeah, ok" and then boom, I would lead the convo into an entirely different topic or something. Taking charge. Not caring about her crap or being sucked in her world. she will see you are strong if you aren't reactive.
 
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yes, yes, yes and yes... thanks for all the advice... i just have to remember to stay in the right frameset.

thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who are you trying to convince there? Me......or you?
 
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me! lol

i guess i didn't f*ck up too bad... things went pretty good today... pulled some C & F and it went over well.
 
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