"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Respond to a women without showing anger

zorg198

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Hello,

I have a question, if a girl you talk too is saying some stuff you don't like , how you respond in a way it will show you are not angry about it but in the same time will give her a good response that will shut her up? in a smart way i mean...
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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MisterD

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smile/chuckle. you don't want to say anything too harsh because it will make you look bitter/hurt. just laugh it off
 

zorg198

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but sometimes it looks like you accepting it instead of giving her a good response that will shut her... no?
 

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Say "Are you testing me? That's cute."

It's ok to show a flash of anger now and then though, especially if you are a Driver (Boss) personality type.

Don't put up with her bad behavior. Also, avoid arguing and minimize complaining.
 

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zorg198 said:
but sometimes it looks like you accepting it instead of giving her a good response that will shut her... no?
well there's no official reply that you can use in every situation

it's dependent on the unique situation if you're planning to sound clever.

but like i said earlier, it's more about how you react than what you say. i've laughed off stuff women have told me, only to see them get more upset once they realize what they say means nothing to me.

gitls say things to get a reaction, if you don't react, they look silly
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I once had a girlfriend giving me **** and telling me she was going to break up with me. I responded: Hey, turn off the hall light when you go upstairs.
 

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bigneil said:
Say "Are you testing me? That's cute."
Like the response I give when a chick tries to order me around: "Aww, it's so cute when you try to be authoritative." and just go back to what I was doing.
 

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Unless you guys are already banging, don't let her get you mad. Never works out. She'll think you're a ***** and lose interest. Instead ignore her and she'll shut up.
 

zorg198

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Zerro said:
Like the response I give when a chick tries to order me around: "Aww, it's so cute when you try to be authoritative." and just go back to what I was doing.

She did this yesterday, i told her : girl you are living in a movie , snap out of it :D
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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