"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Respond to a women without showing anger

zorg198

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Hello,

I have a question, if a girl you talk too is saying some stuff you don't like , how you respond in a way it will show you are not angry about it but in the same time will give her a good response that will shut her up? in a smart way i mean...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MisterD

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smile/chuckle. you don't want to say anything too harsh because it will make you look bitter/hurt. just laugh it off
 

zorg198

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but sometimes it looks like you accepting it instead of giving her a good response that will shut her... no?
 

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Say "Are you testing me? That's cute."

It's ok to show a flash of anger now and then though, especially if you are a Driver (Boss) personality type.

Don't put up with her bad behavior. Also, avoid arguing and minimize complaining.
 

MisterD

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zorg198 said:
but sometimes it looks like you accepting it instead of giving her a good response that will shut her... no?
well there's no official reply that you can use in every situation

it's dependent on the unique situation if you're planning to sound clever.

but like i said earlier, it's more about how you react than what you say. i've laughed off stuff women have told me, only to see them get more upset once they realize what they say means nothing to me.

gitls say things to get a reaction, if you don't react, they look silly
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I once had a girlfriend giving me **** and telling me she was going to break up with me. I responded: Hey, turn off the hall light when you go upstairs.
 

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bigneil said:
Say "Are you testing me? That's cute."
Like the response I give when a chick tries to order me around: "Aww, it's so cute when you try to be authoritative." and just go back to what I was doing.
 

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Unless you guys are already banging, don't let her get you mad. Never works out. She'll think you're a ***** and lose interest. Instead ignore her and she'll shut up.
 

zorg198

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Zerro said:
Like the response I give when a chick tries to order me around: "Aww, it's so cute when you try to be authoritative." and just go back to what I was doing.

She did this yesterday, i told her : girl you are living in a movie , snap out of it :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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