"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hello,

I have a question, if a girl you talk too is saying some stuff you don't like , how you respond in a way it will show you are not angry about it but in the same time will give her a good response that will shut her up? in a smart way i mean...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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smile/chuckle. you don't want to say anything too harsh because it will make you look bitter/hurt. just laugh it off
 
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but sometimes it looks like you accepting it instead of giving her a good response that will shut her... no?
 
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Say "Are you testing me? That's cute."

It's ok to show a flash of anger now and then though, especially if you are a Driver (Boss) personality type.

Don't put up with her bad behavior. Also, avoid arguing and minimize complaining.
 
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zorg198 said:
but sometimes it looks like you accepting it instead of giving her a good response that will shut her... no?
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well there's no official reply that you can use in every situation

it's dependent on the unique situation if you're planning to sound clever.

but like i said earlier, it's more about how you react than what you say. i've laughed off stuff women have told me, only to see them get more upset once they realize what they say means nothing to me.

gitls say things to get a reaction, if you don't react, they look silly
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I once had a girlfriend giving me **** and telling me she was going to break up with me. I responded: Hey, turn off the hall light when you go upstairs.
 
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bigneil said:
Say "Are you testing me? That's cute."
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Like the response I give when a chick tries to order me around: "Aww, it's so cute when you try to be authoritative." and just go back to what I was doing.
 
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Unless you guys are already banging, don't let her get you mad. Never works out. She'll think you're a ***** and lose interest. Instead ignore her and she'll shut up.
 
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Zerro said:
Like the response I give when a chick tries to order me around: "Aww, it's so cute when you try to be authoritative." and just go back to what I was doing.
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She did this yesterday, i told her : girl you are living in a movie , snap out of it :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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