"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Rescheduling Dates? Low interest?

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Rescheduling dates ahead of time after saying "Yes" is a sign of low IL?
That's considering it's in respectful manner, ahead of time, etc. Gotta give credit here.

She's supposedly has high IL but is a "known flake". I am the one with the low IL in here, though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not really. I'd say it's indicator of enough interest to be considerate like htat.
 
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Read the "2 Strikes Rule. "
 
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jophil28 said:
Read the "2 Strikes Rule. "
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Yeah, I am up to date with the rule. We rescheduled for now, she made herself pretty available, so I guess, if she cancels - it's strike 1 and I will just start ignoring her. Even before asking her out, I was somewhat concerned with her "flakiness", hence it's an indication of her low quality as a woman. I did pull this card: "I am gonna do something fun, (possibly with other women)".

In reality, I'll actually be spinning the other plate on that day.
 
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blueline said:
Not really. I'd say it's indicator of enough interest to be considerate like htat.
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I agree with this one as well, it was rather mature and considerate of her, considering how "immature" she actually is.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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maqnetik said:
you ALLOWING her to "reschedule" indefinitely and repeatedly lowers not only your value but you bargaining leverage as well

set an expiration date on your time and stick to it

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Good point, highlight "indefinitely" and "repeatedly". One rescheduling - benefit of the doubt for now. If not, I ve got two others who are willing.
 
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