Rescheduling Dates? Low interest?

[PapiChulo]

Rescheduling dates ahead of time after saying "Yes" is a sign of low IL?
That's considering it's in respectful manner, ahead of time, etc. Gotta give credit here.

She's supposedly has high IL but is a "known flake". I am the one with the low IL in here, though.

 

[blueline]

Not really. I'd say it's indicator of enough interest to be considerate like htat.

 

[jophil28]

Read the "2 Strikes Rule. "

 

[PapiChulo]

Read the "2 Strikes Rule. "

Yeah, I am up to date with the rule. We rescheduled for now, she made herself pretty available, so I guess, if she cancels - it's strike 1 and I will just start ignoring her. Even before asking her out, I was somewhat concerned with her "flakiness", hence it's an indication of her low quality as a woman. I did pull this card: "I am gonna do something fun, (possibly with other women)".

In reality, I'll actually be spinning the other plate on that day.

 

[PapiChulo]

Not really. I'd say it's indicator of enough interest to be considerate like htat.

I agree with this one as well, it was rather mature and considerate of her, considering how "immature" she actually is.

 

[maqnetik]

you ALLOWING her to "reschedule" indefinitely and repeatedly lowers not only your value but you bargaining leverage as well

set an expiration date on your time and stick to it

:yawn:

 

[PapiChulo]

you ALLOWING her to "reschedule" indefinitely and repeatedly lowers not only your value but you bargaining leverage as well

set an expiration date on your time and stick to it

:yawn:

Good point, highlight "indefinitely" and "repeatedly". One rescheduling - benefit of the doubt for now. If not, I ve got two others who are willing.