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Rescheduling Dates? Low interest?

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Rescheduling dates ahead of time after saying "Yes" is a sign of low IL?
That's considering it's in respectful manner, ahead of time, etc. Gotta give credit here.

She's supposedly has high IL but is a "known flake". I am the one with the low IL in here, though.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Not really. I'd say it's indicator of enough interest to be considerate like htat.
 
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Read the "2 Strikes Rule. "
 
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jophil28 said:
Read the "2 Strikes Rule. "
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Yeah, I am up to date with the rule. We rescheduled for now, she made herself pretty available, so I guess, if she cancels - it's strike 1 and I will just start ignoring her. Even before asking her out, I was somewhat concerned with her "flakiness", hence it's an indication of her low quality as a woman. I did pull this card: "I am gonna do something fun, (possibly with other women)".

In reality, I'll actually be spinning the other plate on that day.
 
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blueline said:
Not really. I'd say it's indicator of enough interest to be considerate like htat.
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I agree with this one as well, it was rather mature and considerate of her, considering how "immature" she actually is.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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maqnetik said:
you ALLOWING her to "reschedule" indefinitely and repeatedly lowers not only your value but you bargaining leverage as well

set an expiration date on your time and stick to it

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Good point, highlight "indefinitely" and "repeatedly". One rescheduling - benefit of the doubt for now. If not, I ve got two others who are willing.
 
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