RichardTheFrog
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What if you were at a bank requesting a mortgage?Except if that room was a gym...then I'd be snickering while I watch you struggle to bench the bar![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What if you were at a bank requesting a mortgage?Except if that room was a gym...then I'd be snickering while I watch you struggle to bench the bar![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Already got one of those...3.5% no less, 0 points. Amazing what good credit does for you...What if you were at a bank requesting a mortgage?
#micDropAlready got one of those...3.5% no less, 0 points. Amazing what good credit does for you...
How much do you make in a year?Already got one of those...3.5% no less, 0 points. Amazing what good credit does for you...
Enough...I'm a business analyst/software engineer/programmer for a global bank. Spending an hour or hour and a half 4 or 5 days a week is spending your life at the gym? I've never tried to attract women with money. That's what people who have little else to offer do.How much do you make in a year?
I still think that all the guys who sh1t on attracting girls with money is because they can't do it.
People claim that it's "hard work" to build a good body in the gym. But isn't it harder work to make money? And isn't spending your life in the gym a horrendous waste of time?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So what more do you have to offer?Enough...I'm a business analyst/software engineer/programmer for a global bank. Spending an hour or hour and a half 4 or 5 days a week is spending your life at the gym? I've never tried to attract women with money. That's what people who have little else to offer do.
It's one of those things where you either just get it, or you don't. What's 'it' exactly? Well if you don't know what I mean then you aren't gonna know ever.So what more do you have to offer?
No. If there was a real answer, you'd be able to say something.It's one of those things where you either just get it, or you don't. What's 'it' exactly? Well I you don't know what I mean then you aren't gonna know ever.
Are you a chick on a virtual date in the courting phase?So what more do you have to offer?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Unwrittensocial rules. Like not to pick your nose or fart in public or something dude. That **** feels awkward to write on an anonymous forum even. Just imagine how people feel when you do it in person. You either get it or you don't. Nothing more needs to be said.No. If there was a real answer, you'd be able to say something.
Not picking your nose in public is greater than $1 million?Unwrittensocial rules. Like not to pick your nose or fart in public or something dude. That **** feels awkward to write on an anonymous forum even. Just imagine how people feel when you do it in person. You either get it or you don't. Nothing more needs to be said.
Can't attract women with money? Or don't pay for play with prostitutes.How much do you make in a year?
I still think that all the guys who sh1t on attracting girls with money is because they can't do it.
People claim that it's "hard work" to build a good body in the gym. But isn't it harder work to make money? And isn't spending your life in the gym a horrendous waste of time?
My point was that they couldn't make enough money for it to be part of their character.Can't attract women with money? Or don't pay for play with prostitutes.
Anyone can pay money to sleep with a prostitute. Not everyone can pay a woman who isn't a prostitute to "like" them let alone sleep with them if they aren't interested in the dude in the first place. If that same woman was about money but not interested in you shed just find a dude she's interested in with that same amount of money.
no matter how you try to spin it and flip mental gymnastics a chick who isn't a prostitute isn't going to sleep let alone like any and every dude simply cuz "money" just like every and any dude isn't going to sleep with let alone "like" any and every chick simply cuz "money".
If you think different? Then prove it.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Neil is a bisexual bigbenjaminsbetabuckbod provider.This thread is very suspect, at neil how do you have the nerve to call me homosexual yet your asking for pics like Hilliary supporter? you sure you voted for trump you sound like a bernie sanders fanboy
So women only "use" dudes for something. In normal, healthy relationships there's a thing called reciprocation. When youre being used youre giving. The other party is just taking.My point was that they couldn't make enough money for it to be part of their character.
I'm not convinced that any girl actually "likes" any guy unless she's using him for something.
The reciprocation is sex or reproduction.So women only "use" dudes for something. In normal, healthy relationships there's a thing called reciprocation. When youre being used youre giving. The other party is just taking.
You sound like a societal reject that needs to look at life as if there is no other human elements, or aspects but "using" to fit your "coping mechanism comfort zone".
prove it that all women only use men and never reciprocate. prove it that all men only use women and never reciprocate. prove it that humans only use one another and never reciprocate.
Proof to the contrary of your "using" mantra is right in front of you on this forum. You use it, yet it gives back. If you felt it didn't? Then you wouldn't give back in responses, likes etc.
like it or not.
And you've never gotten anything besides "sex and reproduction" from the opposite sex?The reciprocation is sex or reproduction.
What am I supposed to need from them? A good conversation?And you've never gotten anything besides "sex and reproduction" from the opposite sex?
I'm guessing you have no female family members or your mom never gave you anything?
You don't even believe your own nonsense.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.