"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Already got one of those...3.5% no less, 0 points. Amazing what good credit does for you...
How much do you make in a year?

I still think that all the guys who sh1t on attracting girls with money is because they can't do it.

People claim that it's "hard work" to build a good body in the gym. But isn't it harder work to make money? And isn't spending your life in the gym a horrendous waste of time?
 

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How much do you make in a year?

I still think that all the guys who sh1t on attracting girls with money is because they can't do it.

People claim that it's "hard work" to build a good body in the gym. But isn't it harder work to make money? And isn't spending your life in the gym a horrendous waste of time?
Enough...I'm a business analyst/software engineer/programmer for a global bank. Spending an hour or hour and a half 4 or 5 days a week is spending your life at the gym? I've never tried to attract women with money. That's what people who have little else to offer do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Enough...I'm a business analyst/software engineer/programmer for a global bank. Spending an hour or hour and a half 4 or 5 days a week is spending your life at the gym? I've never tried to attract women with money. That's what people who have little else to offer do.
So what more do you have to offer?
 

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Nothing better than reading two engineers arguing on an anonymous men's forum over who's better with women..........
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No. If there was a real answer, you'd be able to say something.
Unwrittensocial rules. Like not to pick your nose or fart in public or something dude. That **** feels awkward to write on an anonymous forum even. Just imagine how people feel when you do it in person. You either get it or you don't. Nothing more needs to be said.
 
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Unwrittensocial rules. Like not to pick your nose or fart in public or something dude. That **** feels awkward to write on an anonymous forum even. Just imagine how people feel when you do it in person. You either get it or you don't. Nothing more needs to be said.
Not picking your nose in public is greater than $1 million?

I'm trying to figure out if your post is a joke.
 
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How much do you make in a year?

I still think that all the guys who sh1t on attracting girls with money is because they can't do it.

People claim that it's "hard work" to build a good body in the gym. But isn't it harder work to make money? And isn't spending your life in the gym a horrendous waste of time?
Can't attract women with money? Or don't pay for play with prostitutes.

Anyone can pay money to sleep with a prostitute. Not everyone can pay a woman who isn't a prostitute to "like" them let alone sleep with them if they aren't interested in the dude in the first place. If that same woman was about money but not interested in you shed just find a dude she's interested in with that same amount of money.

no matter how you try to spin it and flip mental gymnastics a chick who isn't a prostitute isn't going to sleep let alone like any and every dude simply cuz "money" just like every and any dude isn't going to sleep with let alone "like" any and every chick simply cuz "money".

If you think different? Then prove it.
 

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This thread is very suspect, at neil how do you have the nerve to call me homosexual yet your asking for pics like Hilliary supporter? you sure you voted for trump you sound like a bernie sanders fanboy
 
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Can't attract women with money? Or don't pay for play with prostitutes.

Anyone can pay money to sleep with a prostitute. Not everyone can pay a woman who isn't a prostitute to "like" them let alone sleep with them if they aren't interested in the dude in the first place. If that same woman was about money but not interested in you shed just find a dude she's interested in with that same amount of money.

no matter how you try to spin it and flip mental gymnastics a chick who isn't a prostitute isn't going to sleep let alone like any and every dude simply cuz "money" just like every and any dude isn't going to sleep with let alone "like" any and every chick simply cuz "money".

If you think different? Then prove it.
My point was that they couldn't make enough money for it to be part of their character.

I'm not convinced that any girl actually "likes" any guy unless she's using him for something.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This thread is very suspect, at neil how do you have the nerve to call me homosexual yet your asking for pics like Hilliary supporter? you sure you voted for trump you sound like a bernie sanders fanboy
Neil is a bisexual bigbenjaminsbetabuckbod provider.

He's on a site full of "smaller, weaker, cant get escorts, black women on welfare" site for going on 11 years counting his likes to make "history".

SS needs to get him a used bowling trophy with his name engraved on it and a plaque so he can finally impress and get to have sex with the one escort that wont put out for him even though he took her to a resort all expenses paid.
 
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My point was that they couldn't make enough money for it to be part of their character.

I'm not convinced that any girl actually "likes" any guy unless she's using him for something.
So women only "use" dudes for something. In normal, healthy relationships there's a thing called reciprocation. When youre being used youre giving. The other party is just taking.

You sound like a societal reject that needs to look at life as if there is no other human elements, or aspects but "using" to fit your "coping mechanism comfort zone".

prove it that all women only use men and never reciprocate. prove it that all men only use women and never reciprocate. prove it that humans only use one another and never reciprocate.

Proof to the contrary of your "using" mantra is right in front of you on this forum. You use it, yet it gives back. If you felt it didn't? Then you wouldn't give back in responses, likes etc.

like it or not.
 
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So women only "use" dudes for something. In normal, healthy relationships there's a thing called reciprocation. When youre being used youre giving. The other party is just taking.

You sound like a societal reject that needs to look at life as if there is no other human elements, or aspects but "using" to fit your "coping mechanism comfort zone".

prove it that all women only use men and never reciprocate. prove it that all men only use women and never reciprocate. prove it that humans only use one another and never reciprocate.

Proof to the contrary of your "using" mantra is right in front of you on this forum. You use it, yet it gives back. If you felt it didn't? Then you wouldn't give back in responses, likes etc.

like it or not.
The reciprocation is sex or reproduction.
 
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The reciprocation is sex or reproduction.
And you've never gotten anything besides "sex and reproduction" from the opposite sex?

I'm guessing you have no female family members or your mom never gave you anything?

You don't even believe your own nonsense.
 
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And you've never gotten anything besides "sex and reproduction" from the opposite sex?

I'm guessing you have no female family members or your mom never gave you anything?

You don't even believe your own nonsense.
What am I supposed to need from them? A good conversation?

I mean...

I've had female dentists, lawyers, realtors, etc, but I don't think that's what we're talking about.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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