Thanks, I didn't know about that! I am pleased to see myself ranked high there.Docs said:Going into the Member List, and clicking the "Reputation" header will show you the top reputation earners.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Thanks, I didn't know about that! I am pleased to see myself ranked high there.Docs said:Going into the Member List, and clicking the "Reputation" header will show you the top reputation earners.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I have done. I suppose I am a little worried they'd give me neg points in retaliation though, which is an obvious flaw in the system.brucevangeorge said:Maybe you should take them down a notch.
I know a few of the posters up there have offered to me what would seem like illegal practice. They offered to give me good credit, if I give them some first. I would point fingers, but, nah, it won't help the overall situation.Jariel said:Thanks, I didn't know about that! I am pleased to see myself ranked high there.But generally, I do agree most posters on that list deserve to be there (with the obvious exceptions).
how do you find out who is in the top 10???flippinfreak said:Two of the top ten have offered to trade... that's as far as I will go.
how do you find out who is in the top 10???
^^^Docs said it a few posts back^^^Docs said:Going into the Member List, and clicking the "Reputation" header will show you the top reputation earners.
What we really need is the number to show.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That really surprises me as I believe all of those guys have good advice to give.flippinfreak said:Two of the top ten have offered to trade... that's as far as I will go.
I agree with the idea of a reputation feature being useful but I don't think the one we have makes much sense.Reputation is not useless. If a good amount of people use reputation properly, it works. If you bring down an idiot, but raise a great post, it helps to create the balance. Going into the Member List, and clicking the "Reputation" header will show you the top reputation earners.
Over time, if everyone starts and keeps using it properly, it can show someone that knows what they talk about.
What we really need is the number to show.
there are many of us feeling the same way, that the trolls with just click on anyones rep and add whatever they want.Ever onward said:What good is the Reputation System if it's so easily manipulated?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hey that sounds like it could be effective. Maybe they even have more than just the 3 "categories" that I mentioned if anyone ever climbs that high.After 100 reputation points it adds on another green dot
I think it makes it all the way up to something like 9 dots on these scales...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Go to the Members List and click on reputation to sort the names by reputation.penkitten said:how do you even know who is the top two or the top 50?
Hey man, your rep won't suffer on account of me, you have lots of fans on this board. I've never seen any pics of your women, I was wondering if you're all talk.Shezz said:You git Ever Onward - you took away a Rep Point for my Field Report!! Now ill never have domination...![]()
You'll pay for this!! lol
jus kiddin man - Ill try and get some pics up for the FR soon -Sy has them atm
Sarge On...
At least her head isn't cropped outShe isnt hot like one of DrBeards
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.