Thanks, I didn't know about that! I am pleased to see myself ranked high there.Docs said:Going into the Member List, and clicking the "Reputation" header will show you the top reputation earners.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thanks, I didn't know about that! I am pleased to see myself ranked high there.Docs said:Going into the Member List, and clicking the "Reputation" header will show you the top reputation earners.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I have done. I suppose I am a little worried they'd give me neg points in retaliation though, which is an obvious flaw in the system.brucevangeorge said:Maybe you should take them down a notch.
I know a few of the posters up there have offered to me what would seem like illegal practice. They offered to give me good credit, if I give them some first. I would point fingers, but, nah, it won't help the overall situation.Jariel said:Thanks, I didn't know about that! I am pleased to see myself ranked high there.But generally, I do agree most posters on that list deserve to be there (with the obvious exceptions).
how do you find out who is in the top 10???flippinfreak said:Two of the top ten have offered to trade... that's as far as I will go.
how do you find out who is in the top 10???
^^^Docs said it a few posts back^^^Docs said:Going into the Member List, and clicking the "Reputation" header will show you the top reputation earners.
What we really need is the number to show.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That really surprises me as I believe all of those guys have good advice to give.flippinfreak said:Two of the top ten have offered to trade... that's as far as I will go.
I agree with the idea of a reputation feature being useful but I don't think the one we have makes much sense.Reputation is not useless. If a good amount of people use reputation properly, it works. If you bring down an idiot, but raise a great post, it helps to create the balance. Going into the Member List, and clicking the "Reputation" header will show you the top reputation earners.
Over time, if everyone starts and keeps using it properly, it can show someone that knows what they talk about.
What we really need is the number to show.
there are many of us feeling the same way, that the trolls with just click on anyones rep and add whatever they want.Ever onward said:What good is the Reputation System if it's so easily manipulated?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hey that sounds like it could be effective. Maybe they even have more than just the 3 "categories" that I mentioned if anyone ever climbs that high.After 100 reputation points it adds on another green dot
I think it makes it all the way up to something like 9 dots on these scales...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Go to the Members List and click on reputation to sort the names by reputation.penkitten said:how do you even know who is the top two or the top 50?
Hey man, your rep won't suffer on account of me, you have lots of fans on this board. I've never seen any pics of your women, I was wondering if you're all talk.Shezz said:You git Ever Onward - you took away a Rep Point for my Field Report!! Now ill never have domination...![]()
You'll pay for this!! lol
jus kiddin man - Ill try and get some pics up for the FR soon -Sy has them atm
Sarge On...
At least her head isn't cropped outShe isnt hot like one of DrBeards
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.