"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Remember This !!!

Rubirosa

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Remind yourself that everything that you don't have and truly want is on the other side of some kind of fear. Any goal worth having is beyond your comfort zone, or you'd already have it. If you do exactly want you fear in pursuit of a dream or an important goal, you will often find that it's the surest path to success.

No, I didn't write this, I took it from the web, but it was a cut and paste job, so I can't remember the source. I just wanted to post some inspirational message to you guys for this weekend. Remember these words as you decide whether or not to approach that pretty girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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THAT is a very interesting message to me!

So it says if you somehow nervous about doing something it will almost surely be worth it, no matter what it is? (except for stupid things maybe)
 

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My interpretation is pretty literal : So many times, we want something, but we lack the courage to commit ourselves because the goal entails some kind of self sacrafice that is beyond our current comfort zone
 

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its similar to making a putt in golf or taking a penalty in soccer

its a simple thing to do, in practice, in training - when it doesnt matter

doing such a simple thing in front of thousands of people? its not the same task. now it matters.

confidence, mental strength, not letting the worry about it get to you - thats all it is
 

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Rubirosa said:
My interpretation is pretty literal : So many times, we want something, but we lack the courage to commit ourselves because the goal entails some kind of self sacrafice that is beyond our current comfort zone
Yeah but that's hardly anything new, everybody knows it and you can find it in every 2nd post on this forum. Good on you though, if you can take the action where others write the words!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It's always good to be reminded of things we've heard before. Sometimes one tiny nuance in the way it is re-worded can resonate with us.

Thanks for the post, Rubirosa.
 
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