"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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On facbook, etc. do you think there is any advantage to putting your status as "In a Relationship" even if your single

Does this make u any more desirable when talking to girls?

Does anyone have any experience of it making it easier to strike up conversation because their guard will be down?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Personally I think that's really sleazy, because think about it:

The girl you're talking to will think you're dating some other girl and talking to her at the same time, if you do somehow start dating, will she trust you as much?
 
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sa2009 said:
On facbook, etc. do you think there is any advantage to putting your status as "In a Relationship" even if your single

Does this make u any more desirable when talking to girls?

Does anyone have any experience of it making it easier to strike up conversation because their guard will be down?
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She'll probably find out that you're lying. And if Facebook is your means of meeting girls, then ...
 
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I keep that sh!t blank. No need to have women all up in my business. Even took my photos and wall off cause I had too many girls blowing my spot up.
 
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WC2 said:
I keep that sh!t blank. No need to have women all up in my business. Even took my photos and wall off cause I had too many girls blowing my spot up.
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I've kind of wanted to take off my wall. I have my pictures off already.

I just don't know what the reaction will be to the wall not being there. I'm afraid it'll look prickish to people.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Master Disaster said:
I've kind of wanted to take off my wall. I have my pictures off already.

I just don't know what the reaction will be to the wall not being there. I'm afraid it'll look prickish to people.
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Afraid of what people think?
 
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What does that mean, taking your pictures off? What happens when you're tagged by a friend - it just never comes up on your profile or something?
 
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She'll probably find out that you're lying. And if Facebook is your means of meeting girls, then ...
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Not a way of meeting girls as such... but girls i know in real life often end up on my facebook (and/or THEIR friends, etc.) so i'd like to know the best way to play it!
 
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The only benefit it has is I seem to get less spam if I put it to "in a relationship" rather than "single."

To be honest I don't really believe in tricks like that to attract people, but then again I've never bothered with meeting girls over the internet so maybe I'm not the best person to comment.
 
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Not a way of meeting girls as such... but girls i know in real life often end up on my facebook (and/or THEIR friends, etc.) so i'd like to know the best way to play it!
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Well the best idea would probably be to leave it off your profile.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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