"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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On facbook, etc. do you think there is any advantage to putting your status as "In a Relationship" even if your single

Does this make u any more desirable when talking to girls?

Does anyone have any experience of it making it easier to strike up conversation because their guard will be down?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Personally I think that's really sleazy, because think about it:

The girl you're talking to will think you're dating some other girl and talking to her at the same time, if you do somehow start dating, will she trust you as much?
 
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sa2009 said:
On facbook, etc. do you think there is any advantage to putting your status as "In a Relationship" even if your single

Does this make u any more desirable when talking to girls?

Does anyone have any experience of it making it easier to strike up conversation because their guard will be down?
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She'll probably find out that you're lying. And if Facebook is your means of meeting girls, then ...
 
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I keep that sh!t blank. No need to have women all up in my business. Even took my photos and wall off cause I had too many girls blowing my spot up.
 
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WC2 said:
I keep that sh!t blank. No need to have women all up in my business. Even took my photos and wall off cause I had too many girls blowing my spot up.
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I've kind of wanted to take off my wall. I have my pictures off already.

I just don't know what the reaction will be to the wall not being there. I'm afraid it'll look prickish to people.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Master Disaster said:
I've kind of wanted to take off my wall. I have my pictures off already.

I just don't know what the reaction will be to the wall not being there. I'm afraid it'll look prickish to people.
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Afraid of what people think?
 
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What does that mean, taking your pictures off? What happens when you're tagged by a friend - it just never comes up on your profile or something?
 
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She'll probably find out that you're lying. And if Facebook is your means of meeting girls, then ...
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Not a way of meeting girls as such... but girls i know in real life often end up on my facebook (and/or THEIR friends, etc.) so i'd like to know the best way to play it!
 
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The only benefit it has is I seem to get less spam if I put it to "in a relationship" rather than "single."

To be honest I don't really believe in tricks like that to attract people, but then again I've never bothered with meeting girls over the internet so maybe I'm not the best person to comment.
 
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Not a way of meeting girls as such... but girls i know in real life often end up on my facebook (and/or THEIR friends, etc.) so i'd like to know the best way to play it!
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Well the best idea would probably be to leave it off your profile.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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