"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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On facbook, etc. do you think there is any advantage to putting your status as "In a Relationship" even if your single

Does this make u any more desirable when talking to girls?

Does anyone have any experience of it making it easier to strike up conversation because their guard will be down?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Personally I think that's really sleazy, because think about it:

The girl you're talking to will think you're dating some other girl and talking to her at the same time, if you do somehow start dating, will she trust you as much?
 
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sa2009 said:
On facbook, etc. do you think there is any advantage to putting your status as "In a Relationship" even if your single

Does this make u any more desirable when talking to girls?

Does anyone have any experience of it making it easier to strike up conversation because their guard will be down?
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She'll probably find out that you're lying. And if Facebook is your means of meeting girls, then ...
 
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I keep that sh!t blank. No need to have women all up in my business. Even took my photos and wall off cause I had too many girls blowing my spot up.
 
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WC2 said:
I keep that sh!t blank. No need to have women all up in my business. Even took my photos and wall off cause I had too many girls blowing my spot up.
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I've kind of wanted to take off my wall. I have my pictures off already.

I just don't know what the reaction will be to the wall not being there. I'm afraid it'll look prickish to people.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Master Disaster said:
I've kind of wanted to take off my wall. I have my pictures off already.

I just don't know what the reaction will be to the wall not being there. I'm afraid it'll look prickish to people.
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Afraid of what people think?
 
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What does that mean, taking your pictures off? What happens when you're tagged by a friend - it just never comes up on your profile or something?
 
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She'll probably find out that you're lying. And if Facebook is your means of meeting girls, then ...
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Not a way of meeting girls as such... but girls i know in real life often end up on my facebook (and/or THEIR friends, etc.) so i'd like to know the best way to play it!
 
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The only benefit it has is I seem to get less spam if I put it to "in a relationship" rather than "single."

To be honest I don't really believe in tricks like that to attract people, but then again I've never bothered with meeting girls over the internet so maybe I'm not the best person to comment.
 
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Not a way of meeting girls as such... but girls i know in real life often end up on my facebook (and/or THEIR friends, etc.) so i'd like to know the best way to play it!
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Well the best idea would probably be to leave it off your profile.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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