"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Relationship/cheating issue.

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Dr.LASR

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Hello everyone, me again.
Currently in a dilemma, and was wondering if you guys could help/give some tips.
So I have this GF, say she is about a 5. Then there's this other girl, HBass for example, who's about a 7.5, who is clearly DTF. What happened was HBass didn't know about my girlfriend, so we chatted up, pretty deep flirting, and basically made plans for friday night. However, HBass found out, and texted me asking if I had a GF. So I said yes, but don't think of it like that. Personally, I'm thinking about breaking up with her anyways, as GF is rather shy.

What I'm thinking of doing is either a) ignoring HBass completely until she crawls back, or b) breaking it off with GF now, and closing the deal with HBass.

Tips, ideas? Thank you in advance.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LearningSlowly

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If you cheat you are scum. I regret cheating in my longest ever relationship and I firmly believe it led to the awful and painful end it had.

At least break up with your girl, then tell HBass you did it.
 
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DanZy

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Highschool relationships are bull****, most of the time. You want to cheat on this girl already, break up. There's no need to commit yourself at your age and being single is far more exciting.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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