"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Relationship/cheating issue.

Dr.LASR

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Hello everyone, me again.
Currently in a dilemma, and was wondering if you guys could help/give some tips.
So I have this GF, say she is about a 5. Then there's this other girl, HBass for example, who's about a 7.5, who is clearly DTF. What happened was HBass didn't know about my girlfriend, so we chatted up, pretty deep flirting, and basically made plans for friday night. However, HBass found out, and texted me asking if I had a GF. So I said yes, but don't think of it like that. Personally, I'm thinking about breaking up with her anyways, as GF is rather shy.

What I'm thinking of doing is either a) ignoring HBass completely until she crawls back, or b) breaking it off with GF now, and closing the deal with HBass.

Tips, ideas? Thank you in advance.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LearningSlowly

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If you cheat you are scum. I regret cheating in my longest ever relationship and I firmly believe it led to the awful and painful end it had.

At least break up with your girl, then tell HBass you did it.
 

DanZy

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Highschool relationships are bull****, most of the time. You want to cheat on this girl already, break up. There's no need to commit yourself at your age and being single is far more exciting.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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