"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dr.LASR

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Hello everyone, me again.
Currently in a dilemma, and was wondering if you guys could help/give some tips.
So I have this GF, say she is about a 5. Then there's this other girl, HBass for example, who's about a 7.5, who is clearly DTF. What happened was HBass didn't know about my girlfriend, so we chatted up, pretty deep flirting, and basically made plans for friday night. However, HBass found out, and texted me asking if I had a GF. So I said yes, but don't think of it like that. Personally, I'm thinking about breaking up with her anyways, as GF is rather shy.

What I'm thinking of doing is either a) ignoring HBass completely until she crawls back, or b) breaking it off with GF now, and closing the deal with HBass.

Tips, ideas? Thank you in advance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LearningSlowly

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If you cheat you are scum. I regret cheating in my longest ever relationship and I firmly believe it led to the awful and painful end it had.

At least break up with your girl, then tell HBass you did it.
 
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DanZy

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Highschool relationships are bull****, most of the time. You want to cheat on this girl already, break up. There's no need to commit yourself at your age and being single is far more exciting.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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