"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Relationship/cheating issue.

Dr.LASR

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Hello everyone, me again.
Currently in a dilemma, and was wondering if you guys could help/give some tips.
So I have this GF, say she is about a 5. Then there's this other girl, HBass for example, who's about a 7.5, who is clearly DTF. What happened was HBass didn't know about my girlfriend, so we chatted up, pretty deep flirting, and basically made plans for friday night. However, HBass found out, and texted me asking if I had a GF. So I said yes, but don't think of it like that. Personally, I'm thinking about breaking up with her anyways, as GF is rather shy.

What I'm thinking of doing is either a) ignoring HBass completely until she crawls back, or b) breaking it off with GF now, and closing the deal with HBass.

Tips, ideas? Thank you in advance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LearningSlowly

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If you cheat you are scum. I regret cheating in my longest ever relationship and I firmly believe it led to the awful and painful end it had.

At least break up with your girl, then tell HBass you did it.
 

DanZy

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Highschool relationships are bull****, most of the time. You want to cheat on this girl already, break up. There's no need to commit yourself at your age and being single is far more exciting.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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