That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ivvan said:Give her space. She'll be back
eikk008822 said:Hi everyone, there has been this one girl who things have been going really well with but recently I feel as if the attraction is sliding a bit and moving into the LJBF category...any help on how to rekindle the attraction would be great!
in a typical situation I would but i'm not really that interested in getting laid right off. I just legitimately enjoy spending time with her. potential long-term relationship material? yes.Kbomb said:It is slowing down because you haven't made any sexual moves yet. You need to get on that.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
No. Treat all chicks the same. Make a move and escalate, girls LIKE shexx - you won't get an ltr without it but you will get LJBF.eikk008822 said:in a typical situation I would but i'm not really that interested in getting laid right off. I just legitimately enjoy spending time with her. potential long-term relationship material? yes.
eikk008822 said:in a typical situation I would but i'm not really that interested in getting laid right off. I just legitimately enjoy spending time with her. potential long-term relationship material? yes.