Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ivvan said:Give her space. She'll be back
eikk008822 said:Hi everyone, there has been this one girl who things have been going really well with but recently I feel as if the attraction is sliding a bit and moving into the LJBF category...any help on how to rekindle the attraction would be great!
in a typical situation I would but i'm not really that interested in getting laid right off. I just legitimately enjoy spending time with her. potential long-term relationship material? yes.Kbomb said:It is slowing down because you haven't made any sexual moves yet. You need to get on that.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No. Treat all chicks the same. Make a move and escalate, girls LIKE shexx - you won't get an ltr without it but you will get LJBF.eikk008822 said:in a typical situation I would but i'm not really that interested in getting laid right off. I just legitimately enjoy spending time with her. potential long-term relationship material? yes.
eikk008822 said:in a typical situation I would but i'm not really that interested in getting laid right off. I just legitimately enjoy spending time with her. potential long-term relationship material? yes.