"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rekindling the attraction

eikk008822

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Hi everyone, there has been this one girl who things have been going really well with but recently I feel as if the attraction is sliding a bit and moving into the LJBF category...any help on how to rekindle the attraction would be great!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kbomb

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eikk008822 said:
Hi everyone, there has been this one girl who things have been going really well with but recently I feel as if the attraction is sliding a bit and moving into the LJBF category...any help on how to rekindle the attraction would be great!

It is slowing down because you haven't made any sexual moves yet. You need to get on that.
 

eikk008822

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Kbomb said:
It is slowing down because you haven't made any sexual moves yet. You need to get on that.
in a typical situation I would but i'm not really that interested in getting laid right off. I just legitimately enjoy spending time with her. potential long-term relationship material? yes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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eikk008822 said:
in a typical situation I would but i'm not really that interested in getting laid right off. I just legitimately enjoy spending time with her. potential long-term relationship material? yes.
No. Treat all chicks the same. Make a move and escalate, girls LIKE shexx - you won't get an ltr without it but you will get LJBF.

It's the thought process that you are using that has lost me chicks in the past.

Go for it.

By the way no girl is worth an ltr until she is screened thoroughly.
 

PeakIV

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By the way no girl is worth an ltr until she is screened thoroughly.

Now that is worth repeating......
 

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eikk008822 said:
in a typical situation I would but i'm not really that interested in getting laid right off. I just legitimately enjoy spending time with her. potential long-term relationship material? yes.

Long term girlfriends like sex too, buddy.

It's a mistake to think that if you hold off on showing sexual attraction, then you'll somehow "prove" yourself to be LTR-worthy. It's a sure-fire way to get put in the Friend Zone.

Whether it's a potential ONS in a club or a potential wife, FIRST you have to show some sexual interest. THEN you see where the relationship takes you. Anything else is just two friends talking. And you don't want to be just friends.
 
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