"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
rejection because im short
- Thread starter hell695
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
I'm 5' 3"
and pull babes
Just be confident,
shortness doesn't seal the deal
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
lmaohell695 said:
What a lame excuse, thats not the real problem. You just don't have much game and because of that "Height" comes into play because you have nothing to rely on, because you have no game.
Check through my natural friend's thread, I have a few friends who were Short and pulled more ass than I was before I started learning this. There is no excuses besides the excuse of not having any game to actually accomplish what you want.
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Being short is only a limitation YOU create. Women don't give a good goddamn if you're short or whatever malady you think hinders your progress. What they do find most attractive is confidence and a strong belief in the power of your discipline.
You need to learn early that it's not what she wants that's important but rather what you want your future to be.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
achtungiono
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ofc there are those who does. sigh
Your height is not your problem, your confidence is.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
With a bad boy I ment: be hard to get for the chicks. They always like a challenge. Keep distance, if they say: hi, say hi back but don't look or just wave youre hand but just don't look!!
Life is suffering, the dead is freedom!!!!
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Do you discriminate against women because based on their looks and body. I sure as hell do. I'm not interested in ugly or fat girls. We have no right to say that it's wrong for a woman to be attracted to tall guys and not as attracted to short ones.LostAndConfused said:
As for the thread author. Your only 16, hopefully you will grow another, ugh, how tall are you anyways?
BTW have you actually had a woman turn you down because of your height? How did it happen?
PulpFiction
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Your short, hes short. Shortness is not causing the rejection.
Seems like you gotta improve your game more.
btw, i'm a short guy too(5'5) and I still pull chicks. It actually works to our advantage as some chicks are "intimidated" by the bigger guys.