"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
rejection because im short
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
I'm 5' 3"
and pull babes
Just be confident,
shortness doesn't seal the deal
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
lmaohell695 said:
What a lame excuse, thats not the real problem. You just don't have much game and because of that "Height" comes into play because you have nothing to rely on, because you have no game.
Check through my natural friend's thread, I have a few friends who were Short and pulled more ass than I was before I started learning this. There is no excuses besides the excuse of not having any game to actually accomplish what you want.
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Being short is only a limitation YOU create. Women don't give a good goddamn if you're short or whatever malady you think hinders your progress. What they do find most attractive is confidence and a strong belief in the power of your discipline.
You need to learn early that it's not what she wants that's important but rather what you want your future to be.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
achtungiono
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ofc there are those who does. sigh
Your height is not your problem, your confidence is.
LostAndConfused
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
With a bad boy I ment: be hard to get for the chicks. They always like a challenge. Keep distance, if they say: hi, say hi back but don't look or just wave youre hand but just don't look!!
Life is suffering, the dead is freedom!!!!
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Do you discriminate against women because based on their looks and body. I sure as hell do. I'm not interested in ugly or fat girls. We have no right to say that it's wrong for a woman to be attracted to tall guys and not as attracted to short ones.LostAndConfused said:
As for the thread author. Your only 16, hopefully you will grow another, ugh, how tall are you anyways?
BTW have you actually had a woman turn you down because of your height? How did it happen?
PulpFiction
Don Juan
Your short, hes short. Shortness is not causing the rejection.
Seems like you gotta improve your game more.
btw, i'm a short guy too(5'5) and I still pull chicks. It actually works to our advantage as some chicks are "intimidated" by the bigger guys.