"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
rejection because im short
- Thread starter hell695
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
I'm 5' 3"
and pull babes
Just be confident,
shortness doesn't seal the deal
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
lmaohell695 said:
What a lame excuse, thats not the real problem. You just don't have much game and because of that "Height" comes into play because you have nothing to rely on, because you have no game.
Check through my natural friend's thread, I have a few friends who were Short and pulled more ass than I was before I started learning this. There is no excuses besides the excuse of not having any game to actually accomplish what you want.
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Being short is only a limitation YOU create. Women don't give a good goddamn if you're short or whatever malady you think hinders your progress. What they do find most attractive is confidence and a strong belief in the power of your discipline.
You need to learn early that it's not what she wants that's important but rather what you want your future to be.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
achtungiono
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ofc there are those who does. sigh
Your height is not your problem, your confidence is.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
With a bad boy I ment: be hard to get for the chicks. They always like a challenge. Keep distance, if they say: hi, say hi back but don't look or just wave youre hand but just don't look!!
Life is suffering, the dead is freedom!!!!
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Do you discriminate against women because based on their looks and body. I sure as hell do. I'm not interested in ugly or fat girls. We have no right to say that it's wrong for a woman to be attracted to tall guys and not as attracted to short ones.LostAndConfused said:
As for the thread author. Your only 16, hopefully you will grow another, ugh, how tall are you anyways?
BTW have you actually had a woman turn you down because of your height? How did it happen?
PulpFiction
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Your short, hes short. Shortness is not causing the rejection.
Seems like you gotta improve your game more.
btw, i'm a short guy too(5'5) and I still pull chicks. It actually works to our advantage as some chicks are "intimidated" by the bigger guys.