"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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rejection because im short

hell695

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How do i get girls to stop rejecting me because I'm shorter or the same height as allot of them?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You need to find girls shorter than you, is basically the only answer I can provide, as I have the same issue (5'6")
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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make her sit down before you ask her haha
 

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that sounds like a good idea "you get in that chair" lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Snow Plowman

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hell695 said:
How do i get girls to stop rejecting me because I'm shorter or the same height as allot of them?
lmao

What a lame excuse, thats not the real problem. You just don't have much game and because of that "Height" comes into play because you have nothing to rely on, because you have no game.

Check through my natural friend's thread, I have a few friends who were Short and pulled more ass than I was before I started learning this. There is no excuses besides the excuse of not having any game to actually accomplish what you want.
 

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yeha this thread should be called "rejection" not "rejection BECAUSE [insert lame excuse]" dont justify your rejection with anything, youre just giving a reason to your rejection instead of takign responsability for it and the more you do this the more youll think youre goign to get rejected because of your height
 

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Youngbrothers:

Being short is only a limitation YOU create. Women don't give a good goddamn if you're short or whatever malady you think hinders your progress. What they do find most attractive is confidence and a strong belief in the power of your discipline.

You need to learn early that it's not what she wants that's important but rather what you want your future to be.
 

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redspicyflag said:
Wow

I'm 5' 3"

and pull babes

Just be confident,

shortness doesn't seal the deal
Do the oompah-loompah dance. I'm serious. Girls will fall down before you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oh blabla "i knew some women who only..." wth?
ofc there are those who does. sigh

Your height is not your problem, your confidence is.
 

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theres women like that but there plenty of fish in the sea.
 

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I think height discrimination is the most shallow thing a woman can ever consider. As long as the guy isn't a midget or is like five inches shorter than her I don't see why a girl would turn down an absolutely fine average looking guy who exudes the same confidence of a tall guy. And yet, I know some very short women who won't date anyone but tall people. Doesn't make any sense to me.
 

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Just try to be more populaire and hard to get. So short said: be a bad boy!!!
 

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i was down the bad boy road alrighty acordding to the princple last year i had more flags on the computer then the UN but gettin in **** dont pay
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol
With a bad boy I ment: be hard to get for the chicks. They always like a challenge. Keep distance, if they say: hi, say hi back but don't look or just wave youre hand but just don't look!!


Life is suffering, the dead is freedom!!!!
 

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LostAndConfused said:
I think height discrimination is the most shallow thing a woman can ever consider. As long as the guy isn't a midget or is like five inches shorter than her I don't see why a girl would turn down an absolutely fine average looking guy who exudes the same confidence of a tall guy. And yet, I know some very short women who won't date anyone but tall people. Doesn't make any sense to me.
Do you discriminate against women because based on their looks and body. I sure as hell do. I'm not interested in ugly or fat girls. We have no right to say that it's wrong for a woman to be attracted to tall guys and not as attracted to short ones.

As for the thread author. Your only 16, hopefully you will grow another, ugh, how tall are you anyways?

BTW have you actually had a woman turn you down because of your height? How did it happen?
 

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Height doesn't matter unless they're tall girls but of course you have a superiority when you're taller.
 

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Dude, shortness is not a problem. I've seen a guy in my school thats 5'3 and hes going out with a smoking hot 5'8 girl.

Your short, hes short. Shortness is not causing the rejection.
Seems like you gotta improve your game more.

btw, i'm a short guy too(5'5) and I still pull chicks. It actually works to our advantage as some chicks are "intimidated" by the bigger guys.
 
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