"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
rejection because im short
- Thread starter hell695
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
I'm 5' 3"
and pull babes
Just be confident,
shortness doesn't seal the deal
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
lmaohell695 said:
What a lame excuse, thats not the real problem. You just don't have much game and because of that "Height" comes into play because you have nothing to rely on, because you have no game.
Check through my natural friend's thread, I have a few friends who were Short and pulled more ass than I was before I started learning this. There is no excuses besides the excuse of not having any game to actually accomplish what you want.
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Being short is only a limitation YOU create. Women don't give a good goddamn if you're short or whatever malady you think hinders your progress. What they do find most attractive is confidence and a strong belief in the power of your discipline.
You need to learn early that it's not what she wants that's important but rather what you want your future to be.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
achtungiono
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ofc there are those who does. sigh
Your height is not your problem, your confidence is.
LostAndConfused
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
With a bad boy I ment: be hard to get for the chicks. They always like a challenge. Keep distance, if they say: hi, say hi back but don't look or just wave youre hand but just don't look!!
Life is suffering, the dead is freedom!!!!
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Do you discriminate against women because based on their looks and body. I sure as hell do. I'm not interested in ugly or fat girls. We have no right to say that it's wrong for a woman to be attracted to tall guys and not as attracted to short ones.LostAndConfused said:
As for the thread author. Your only 16, hopefully you will grow another, ugh, how tall are you anyways?
BTW have you actually had a woman turn you down because of your height? How did it happen?
PulpFiction
Don Juan
Your short, hes short. Shortness is not causing the rejection.
Seems like you gotta improve your game more.
btw, i'm a short guy too(5'5) and I still pull chicks. It actually works to our advantage as some chicks are "intimidated" by the bigger guys.