"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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RedPill situations - wife and viagra

sosumba

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So imagine a situation where a wife sees a husband taking a viagra pill. Then the girl is upset that she does not turn him on.

What is the red pill way to handle this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sosumba

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I am actually thinking this might be a good thing from a red pill perspective since it tells her covertly she is no longer as attractive to" get it up" and she need to work more on heself so the right thing to do is nothing.
 

Zontyy

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Viagra won’t work if your not attracted to them. You actually have to get hard, vaigra just loosens the blood vessel. I’ve been on 100mg around a bunch of ugly girls and nothing. I hug one women I am attracted too and boom instant boner for a few hours or unless I find something to kill the mood.

I just did a 2 and a half hour last night with a dapo and 50mg of viagra. Her ***** will get sore long before your **** does. Most women will embrace it and not read too much into it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oldmanofthesea

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This is how MANY women handle things like that. They make it about themselves. Whether it is reduced sex frequency, erectile issues, or orgasm issues (your orgasm issues, not theirs).

I wouldn't say dealing with this falls into red pill though. I would say the way to deal with it is to calmly explain that due to changes in your own body or stress or whatever you think the reason is, you've had difficulty and that it has nothing to do with her and you still find her as attractive today as you did the day you met (assuming this is at least somewhat... kind of true). If she throws a fit in response and says she doesn't believe you or begins criticizing you, then you draw a boundary and calmly explain you told her the truth, that there is nothing to debate, and that you will not be arguing with her about it, and that you find it troubling that she is accusing you of lying (assuming she is), and then walk away without discussing it further.
 

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This is one where you do it in secret. You just don't want it on her mind.
 

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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Red Pill is to self development into a better version of yourself.

Your **** is a sign of your heart health, Viagra is a Last resort
 
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