"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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RedPill situations - wife and viagra

sosumba

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So imagine a situation where a wife sees a husband taking a viagra pill. Then the girl is upset that she does not turn him on.

What is the red pill way to handle this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sosumba

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I am actually thinking this might be a good thing from a red pill perspective since it tells her covertly she is no longer as attractive to" get it up" and she need to work more on heself so the right thing to do is nothing.
 

Zontyy

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Viagra won’t work if your not attracted to them. You actually have to get hard, vaigra just loosens the blood vessel. I’ve been on 100mg around a bunch of ugly girls and nothing. I hug one women I am attracted too and boom instant boner for a few hours or unless I find something to kill the mood.

I just did a 2 and a half hour last night with a dapo and 50mg of viagra. Her ***** will get sore long before your **** does. Most women will embrace it and not read too much into it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oldmanofthesea

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This is how MANY women handle things like that. They make it about themselves. Whether it is reduced sex frequency, erectile issues, or orgasm issues (your orgasm issues, not theirs).

I wouldn't say dealing with this falls into red pill though. I would say the way to deal with it is to calmly explain that due to changes in your own body or stress or whatever you think the reason is, you've had difficulty and that it has nothing to do with her and you still find her as attractive today as you did the day you met (assuming this is at least somewhat... kind of true). If she throws a fit in response and says she doesn't believe you or begins criticizing you, then you draw a boundary and calmly explain you told her the truth, that there is nothing to debate, and that you will not be arguing with her about it, and that you find it troubling that she is accusing you of lying (assuming she is), and then walk away without discussing it further.
 

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This is one where you do it in secret. You just don't want it on her mind.
 

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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Red Pill is to self development into a better version of yourself.

Your **** is a sign of your heart health, Viagra is a Last resort
 
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