"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RedPill situations - wife and viagra

sosumba

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So imagine a situation where a wife sees a husband taking a viagra pill. Then the girl is upset that she does not turn him on.

What is the red pill way to handle this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sosumba

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I am actually thinking this might be a good thing from a red pill perspective since it tells her covertly she is no longer as attractive to" get it up" and she need to work more on heself so the right thing to do is nothing.
 

Zontyy

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Viagra won’t work if your not attracted to them. You actually have to get hard, vaigra just loosens the blood vessel. I’ve been on 100mg around a bunch of ugly girls and nothing. I hug one women I am attracted too and boom instant boner for a few hours or unless I find something to kill the mood.

I just did a 2 and a half hour last night with a dapo and 50mg of viagra. Her ***** will get sore long before your **** does. Most women will embrace it and not read too much into it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oldmanofthesea

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This is how MANY women handle things like that. They make it about themselves. Whether it is reduced sex frequency, erectile issues, or orgasm issues (your orgasm issues, not theirs).

I wouldn't say dealing with this falls into red pill though. I would say the way to deal with it is to calmly explain that due to changes in your own body or stress or whatever you think the reason is, you've had difficulty and that it has nothing to do with her and you still find her as attractive today as you did the day you met (assuming this is at least somewhat... kind of true). If she throws a fit in response and says she doesn't believe you or begins criticizing you, then you draw a boundary and calmly explain you told her the truth, that there is nothing to debate, and that you will not be arguing with her about it, and that you find it troubling that she is accusing you of lying (assuming she is), and then walk away without discussing it further.
 

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This is one where you do it in secret. You just don't want it on her mind.
 

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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Red Pill is to self development into a better version of yourself.

Your **** is a sign of your heart health, Viagra is a Last resort
 
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