Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Forget it.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
By you saying they will, you're effectively leaving guys with a countdown clock in their head running paranoid. It's stupid and wrong. Being realistic is saying "given the wrong/right set of circumstances the girl I'm seeing could be seriously tempted into straying," this is why you don't date girls who aren't ready to leave the party life behind and act like they're in a relationship. It's about recognising a girl's character. Don't take offence by what I said but I just think you have a lot to learn.CerwinVegaFan said:I'm not bitter, I'm realistic. Telling an afc that all women are capable of cheating is weak, "oh OK I'll do my best", he then gets cheated on and "WHAT THE **** GUYS I DIDN'T KNOW THAT YOU REALLY MEAN IT".
be prepared for everything.
Lol where did I say that? I said all girls were capable of cheating, I don't think there are any immune from it if you stick them in certain circumstances. But you want to be with the girls who understand this themselves and don't go out and get drunk, who don't meet up with guys one on one and don't let men's flirting get past a certain point and shut it down quickly. You've just made out that all girls have the same way of doing things and they don't. I'm on the verge of a relationship and this girl is hot but she's given up going out and getting drunk, along with some other things because she wants to be with me and she's showing me that in her actions.CerwinVegaFan said:If you want to argue about the way I wrote it, you're more than welcome to do it, but please enough with the Bulls hit "not all girls are like this".
Yeah and that swings both ways, don't lose sight of that.CerwinVegaFan said:You don't know the true nature of a girl, Ever.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.