Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Forget it.
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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
By you saying they will, you're effectively leaving guys with a countdown clock in their head running paranoid. It's stupid and wrong. Being realistic is saying "given the wrong/right set of circumstances the girl I'm seeing could be seriously tempted into straying," this is why you don't date girls who aren't ready to leave the party life behind and act like they're in a relationship. It's about recognising a girl's character. Don't take offence by what I said but I just think you have a lot to learn.CerwinVegaFan said:I'm not bitter, I'm realistic. Telling an afc that all women are capable of cheating is weak, "oh OK I'll do my best", he then gets cheated on and "WHAT THE **** GUYS I DIDN'T KNOW THAT YOU REALLY MEAN IT".
be prepared for everything.
Lol where did I say that? I said all girls were capable of cheating, I don't think there are any immune from it if you stick them in certain circumstances. But you want to be with the girls who understand this themselves and don't go out and get drunk, who don't meet up with guys one on one and don't let men's flirting get past a certain point and shut it down quickly. You've just made out that all girls have the same way of doing things and they don't. I'm on the verge of a relationship and this girl is hot but she's given up going out and getting drunk, along with some other things because she wants to be with me and she's showing me that in her actions.CerwinVegaFan said:If you want to argue about the way I wrote it, you're more than welcome to do it, but please enough with the Bulls hit "not all girls are like this".
Yeah and that swings both ways, don't lose sight of that.CerwinVegaFan said:You don't know the true nature of a girl, Ever.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.