Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Forget it.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
By you saying they will, you're effectively leaving guys with a countdown clock in their head running paranoid. It's stupid and wrong. Being realistic is saying "given the wrong/right set of circumstances the girl I'm seeing could be seriously tempted into straying," this is why you don't date girls who aren't ready to leave the party life behind and act like they're in a relationship. It's about recognising a girl's character. Don't take offence by what I said but I just think you have a lot to learn.CerwinVegaFan said:I'm not bitter, I'm realistic. Telling an afc that all women are capable of cheating is weak, "oh OK I'll do my best", he then gets cheated on and "WHAT THE **** GUYS I DIDN'T KNOW THAT YOU REALLY MEAN IT".
be prepared for everything.
Lol where did I say that? I said all girls were capable of cheating, I don't think there are any immune from it if you stick them in certain circumstances. But you want to be with the girls who understand this themselves and don't go out and get drunk, who don't meet up with guys one on one and don't let men's flirting get past a certain point and shut it down quickly. You've just made out that all girls have the same way of doing things and they don't. I'm on the verge of a relationship and this girl is hot but she's given up going out and getting drunk, along with some other things because she wants to be with me and she's showing me that in her actions.CerwinVegaFan said:If you want to argue about the way I wrote it, you're more than welcome to do it, but please enough with the Bulls hit "not all girls are like this".
Yeah and that swings both ways, don't lose sight of that.CerwinVegaFan said:You don't know the true nature of a girl, Ever.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.