Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Forget it.
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
If that's all you've gained from the community, you will not go far.
There are subtle things that need to be picked up on like the difference between the two statements:
All women cheat
and
All women are capable of cheating
Understanding the difference and how to minimise the chances of cheating will prevent you from becoming bitter.
There are subtle things that need to be picked up on like the difference between the two statements:
All women cheat
and
All women are capable of cheating
Understanding the difference and how to minimise the chances of cheating will prevent you from becoming bitter.
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
I'm not bitter, I'm realistic. Telling an afc that all women are capable of cheating is weak, "oh OK I'll do my best", he then gets cheated on and "WHAT THE **** GUYS I DIDN'T KNOW THAT YOU REALLY MEAN IT".
be prepared for everything. If you want to argue about the way I wrote it, you're more than welcome to do it, but please enough with the Bulls hit "not all girls are like this".
You don't know the true nature of a girl, Ever.
be prepared for everything. If you want to argue about the way I wrote it, you're more than welcome to do it, but please enough with the Bulls hit "not all girls are like this".
You don't know the true nature of a girl, Ever.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
By you saying they will, you're effectively leaving guys with a countdown clock in their head running paranoid. It's stupid and wrong. Being realistic is saying "given the wrong/right set of circumstances the girl I'm seeing could be seriously tempted into straying," this is why you don't date girls who aren't ready to leave the party life behind and act like they're in a relationship. It's about recognising a girl's character. Don't take offence by what I said but I just think you have a lot to learn.CerwinVegaFan said:
Lol where did I say that? I said all girls were capable of cheating, I don't think there are any immune from it if you stick them in certain circumstances. But you want to be with the girls who understand this themselves and don't go out and get drunk, who don't meet up with guys one on one and don't let men's flirting get past a certain point and shut it down quickly. You've just made out that all girls have the same way of doing things and they don't. I'm on the verge of a relationship and this girl is hot but she's given up going out and getting drunk, along with some other things because she wants to be with me and she's showing me that in her actions.CerwinVegaFan said:
Yeah and that swings both ways, don't lose sight of that.CerwinVegaFan said:
Serenity
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No women I know are cheating, that I know about and even if they do I don't want to know. Everyone grabs good opportunities, what idiot passes up gold if it appears? Angels or devils, I'll marry the angel and fvck the devil. It can be somewhat an advantage that they can be nasty slvts and still look innocent, lol.
The adverse effects are true though, but it passes and the red pill is the only pill. Would be better if people didn't run around and deluded themselves regardless of how real they think it is, you'll inevitably get burnt regardless. Would be far better to just fvcking get hurt and learn how to bounce back quickly. We're not here to be made into more of a pvssy are we?
The adverse effects are true though, but it passes and the red pill is the only pill. Would be better if people didn't run around and deluded themselves regardless of how real they think it is, you'll inevitably get burnt regardless. Would be far better to just fvcking get hurt and learn how to bounce back quickly. We're not here to be made into more of a pvssy are we?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
escaleraroyal
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i had 15 girls friends in the past and only one cheated on me. it was my fault. :'(