TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Lmfao she asking for money already
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Red flags everywhere still going true with it - need advice
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Igetit!
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Yeah,so? What's the problem?
She told you from the VERY BEGINNING that she needed money,that she spends a lot,and that she needed money to pay the rent. She was 100% transparent and UPFRONT.
Your response? "Ok,NO PROBLEM".
She told you she needed money,YOU AGREED to give it to her. You defined the relationship right then and there. Now you're talking about "lmfao,she's asking for money already"......as if she were doing something wrong.
She kept her end of the bargain,now it's your turn.
So PAY UP.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
I understand what your saying. Alright she called me, I decided to pick up and see whatsup.
She asked for money to help her a bit with rent. Told her upfront no, i understand you but i just know you for 2 weeks and im not going to send you a penny. I like you but I dont send money, on top of that I got my phone full of girls that want to go out with me for me not for money.
She says ok, no problem ill manage somehow and then..
She wants to visit Holland, where I live. She says Ill pay for my passport and the ticket myself and visit you, I want to see you.
She is tired of going out so much and her school starts in october so she got 1,5 months time and wants to see me and stay with me for a couple of weeks. I told her what you gon do here?
She says, Ill wait for you til you come home from work and cook for you and we go out and stuff.
I said ok we could do that, ill tell you tommorow what we do..
lol to be continued.
EyeOnThePrize
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Bro she's gonna roofie you and harvest your organs lol you trust her at your place unattended?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Glassguy
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Shes a worthless prostitute that you considered dating. Prostitutes sell their pvssy for money. Not sure why you are surprised that she wants money now.
She never liked you. She wanted your money. That's what prostitutes do. And strippers.
Find a chick that likes YOU instead of wanting your money. This shyte isnt hard to figure out.
She never liked you. She wanted your money. That's what prostitutes do. And strippers.
Find a chick that likes YOU instead of wanting your money. This shyte isnt hard to figure out.
Serenity
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Who do you think has to pay all the expenses of her stay? She's gonna pay her ticket, but what about the rest? To her it's probably a cheap all inclusive vacation. Usually transportation isn't the biggest expense when I travel, it's everything else.
You clearly do not know how incredibly good many women are at acting. Of course she fvcking wants to give you the impression she really likes you, no better way to be given money than for the giver to feel good about it. No woman who really likes you would dare to ask you for money with the risk of scaring you away.
By all means though, go ahead. Invite the leech to your home, if only so I can sh!t on you when you return here after you realize what mirage you just chased.