This one girl and I had a date set up tonight to go ice skating. This would be our second (The first one went very well). She left a message on my voicemail today while I was in class, saying she felt really crappy, that she was on her period, and that she wouldn't be able to do it today. She said that maybe we could try it tomorrow, but that she doesn't know if she's going to be feeling well tomorrow either. Her voice sounded pretty sincere, but I don't know, women can be good actors. How would a true DJ handle this, I missed the section in the bible on periods :nervous: .
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Red Flag - Unsure how to handle it
- Thread starter paulwis
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Give her the benefit of the doubt this time and let her reschedule. If it happens again, next her.
BTW, she mentioned that she was on her period? If she is not bullshyting, mark the date down on a calender. This 28 day cycle will be helpful later down the road.
BTW, she mentioned that she was on her period? If she is not bullshyting, mark the date down on a calender. This 28 day cycle will be helpful later down the road.
TheMaestro87
Don Juan
The fact that she's interested in rescheduling it is a good sign. Like Blackmm said, give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe tell her it's too bad because all that fun with you would have made her feel better, then just wait for the next date.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
Blackmm said:
DIDDO
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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