This one girl and I had a date set up tonight to go ice skating. This would be our second (The first one went very well). She left a message on my voicemail today while I was in class, saying she felt really crappy, that she was on her period, and that she wouldn't be able to do it today. She said that maybe we could try it tomorrow, but that she doesn't know if she's going to be feeling well tomorrow either. Her voice sounded pretty sincere, but I don't know, women can be good actors. How would a true DJ handle this, I missed the section in the bible on periods :nervous: .
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Red Flag - Unsure how to handle it
- Thread starter paulwis
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Give her the benefit of the doubt this time and let her reschedule. If it happens again, next her.
BTW, she mentioned that she was on her period? If she is not bullshyting, mark the date down on a calender. This 28 day cycle will be helpful later down the road.
BTW, she mentioned that she was on her period? If she is not bullshyting, mark the date down on a calender. This 28 day cycle will be helpful later down the road.
TheMaestro87
Don Juan
The fact that she's interested in rescheduling it is a good sign. Like Blackmm said, give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe tell her it's too bad because all that fun with you would have made her feel better, then just wait for the next date.
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
Blackmm said:
DIDDO
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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